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First Day with the Horses
Posted 6:52 AM, October 8, 2009, by shejonesWithout a doubt humans have much to learn from all species of animals. I feel this is especially so of horses for me in that I have such minimal exposure to them.
The power of non-verbal communication is not to be underestimated, nor is the importance of learning another “language”. To learn their language is very necessary in order to foster these new relationships. I couldn’t help comparing interaction with them to the one I have with cats. With cats I instinctively know what they want and look forward to having this connection with the horses.
The biggest challenge for me with the horses is that I’ve never been fond of being in control of animals. Safety dictates this element of the relationship and it was something I was acutely aware of on my first day with "Spice". You must be aware of every position of the horse in relation to other people, other horses and yourself in addition to making sure the horse is comfortable. I now understanding “being present” in a whole new light.
The positive environment is very conducive to accepting these differences in ourselves and much appreciated. Can't wait for the next class!
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Comment by: Val L at October 10, 2009 5:47 AM
Do we really "control" these large animals? So much of what horses do is reaction - I feel much of what I do with my horses is requesting their attention, then their trust.
Comment by: Patti at October 16, 2009 4:02 PM
As I stood watching the horses today, I was reminded of a book I had read about meditation. One of the primary themes of the book was to "be Present" in the environment without thinking and judging, but merely noticing and observing. It is amazing what we learn about our surroundings when we are mentally present. I spend so little of my time mentally "present" anywhere, but I hope to improve this skill as I continue on.
-Shawn
Comment by: Shawn at November 1, 2009 7:21 PM
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"Being Present" is a life skill all in itself. The horses really help me continue practicing and refining this skill.
And it takes practice. Lots of it. Somedays I am able to more easily stay present than others. The best part is that this skill transfers over into other areas of my life; work, pleasure, family which enhances those areas of my life.
Great insight!
Val L, horseperson